- What should a 2 year old eat in a day?
- Three small meals, two snacks and about 400–500 ml of milk including curd. A day from this chart looks like: ragi porridge for breakfast, a fruit mid-morning, moong dal khichdi with curd for lunch, a light evening snack, and dal-roti mash with ghee for dinner, with milk in the early morning and at bedtime.
- How much milk should a 1–3 year old drink?
- Around 400–500 ml a day, counting curd — most paediatricians on Indian parenting resources hold this line. More than that and milk starts displacing meals, which shows up as a child who "drinks but won't eat". Serve it at fixed times, not on demand, and offer water for thirst.
- Can my toddler eat the same food as the rest of the family?
- Yes — that is how this chart is written. Cook the family meal, remove the toddler's portion before adding green chilli or a sharp tadka, and mash where needed. Two cautions: no whole nuts or whole grapes until age four (grind or quarter them), and keep sugar and salt light.
- My toddler eats very little — should I worry?
- Appetite between one and three is genuinely erratic; judge the week, not the day. Use the tablespoon-per-year rule as your portion baseline, keep offering without force, and repeat accepted foods freely. If weight is falling across your paediatrician's growth chart rather than just plateauing, that is the point to get it checked.